Oooooh, oooooh, I know! Blame yourself for the situation your in. Now that I have gotten that out of the way.
Everyone wants to look for someone or something else to blame for the situation they are in. Of course you don’t ask for bad things to happen, but since we still don’t have that time machine I have been working on, what choice do you have?
1. You can waste time complaining.
2. You can do something about it.
I advise that you choose #2. Don’t waste your time playing the blame game. Take back control of your life by owning up to the decisions you have made in the past and thinking through the decisions you make in the future.
This is so true! There is nothing you can blame on others. Your reaction to anything is ALWAYS your decision. It’s like when my boys fight and one of them gets in trouble they always say, “he made me do it because he called me a weenie head”. I tell them all the time to be responsible for themselves and their own actions.
I am not perfect by any means and always used to blame my weight on outside factors, when in reality I had the CHOICE to avoid all of them and to do something about it. Finally, I did!
Life is all about decisions, choices, responsibility, and accountability. GREAT POST!
There are exceptions to the blame game. Some tragedies are hard to get over, but on the whole you still only have two choices. You can move forward or you can remain still. I like moving forward at a rapid pace!
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